Mistakes To Avoid When Hiring Your Wedding DJ


Planning your dream wedding is an exciting journey filled with countless decisions to make, from choosing the right venue to finding the perfect dress, every detail matters.

One crucial aspect of any wedding reception is the entertainment and music

Once the formalities of the wedding ceremony are over, you want to ensure you create an atmosphere where your guests are relaxed and can enjoy themselves.

Hiring the wrong Wedding DJ can turn this part of your dream celebration into a nightmare.

While the search for your perfect DJ can be exhilarating, there are several common mistakes that brides and grooms-to-be often make when hiring the wrong wedding DJ.

In this blog post, we’ll explore the seven most significant mistakes couples make when selecting a Wedding DJ to help you avoid these pitfalls and create a memorable wedding reception.

1. Not Researching Thoroughly

One of the most common mistakes couples make is not conducting thorough research before hiring a Wedding DJ.

The standard of your DJ will have a huge impact on how well, or not so well, the festivities will be remembered.

So this is not an area where you want to shortcut by just asking for recommendations from friends or going with the first DJ you find online.

This is a recipe for disappointment, so make sure you spend plenty of time researching potential wedding DJs.

Sharp eyed and meticulous planners will invest time in checking online reviews, website testimonials and videos, if they are available, to gauge the DJ’s professionalism and performance at previous events.

If you are getting hitched at a venue that lists its own preferred wedding service suppliers, then Wedding DJs they promote should be first on your shortlist.

A successful wedding venue will want to keep its reputation intact, so they will ensure their own recommendations for Wedding DJs and other entertainers are well vetted.

2. Overlooking Experience and Specialisation

Hiring a DJ who lacks experience in performing at weddings or doesn’t specialise in this type of event can lead to mismatched music and a lacklustre atmosphere.

Your average Wedding DJ should have at least a grasp of how a typical wedding party unfolds and how their input will add to your day.

Don’t make the mistake of hiring someone from the local nightclub or a friend who DJs at the local bar or club if they have little wedding dj experience.

There is a huge difference in skill sets between a Wedding DJ and a nightclub DJ.  

Not that every nightclub or bar DJ isn’t up to the job, just be sure that they fully understand the dynamics of a wedding reception and can cater to a diverse audience.

3. Not Meeting the DJ in Person

A face-to-face meeting with potential wedding DJs is crucial to assess their personality, communication skills, and overall compatibility with you as a couple.

This can be followed up with online meetings via Teams or Skype if you run into time or diary conflicts.

Your Wedding DJ will be your spokesperson, music guide and possibly announcer for the day.

You have to be sure they are the right fit for your wedding party and bring the type of vibes and energy that you are comfortable with.

So face to face contact with your Wedding DJ is a must.

Brides and grooms who solely rely on phone calls or emails risk ending up with a DJ who doesn’t align with their vision or lacks the ability to read the crowd and keep the dance floor alive.

4. Ignoring References

It’s a mistake not to ask for references from past clients.

These can provide valuable insights into the DJ’s professionalism, reliability, and performance.

Check out wedding forums for feedback on past events in your area.

Is your potential Wedding DJ a hit with reviewers, or do they have more than a few 1 or 2 star reviews than you are comfortable with?

Talking to previous clients can also help you make an informed decision and avoid disappointment on your big day.

A reputable Wedding DJ should be able to provide references from past clients. If they have a problem with this, then they should be avoided. 

Reach out to these references to inquire about their experience, the DJ’s reliability, and how well they managed the crowd. 

This first hand feedback can offer valuable insights into what you can expect on your special day.

You can ask simple questions to help form an opinion, or to make sure you get independent social proof from them.

Questions like:

  • How well did the DJ make their announcements?
  • Would you book this DJ again?
  • Did they play the music you asked for?
  • What did your guests think about them?
  • Was the music too loud/soft/distorted?
  • Did you feel you got value for what you paid them?

5. Falling for Low Prices

Weddings can be a big strain on your budget and like many couples, you will be looking to get the best deal for your money.

However, opting for the cheapest DJ available can be a costly mistake.

Low prices may indicate a lack of experience, subpar equipment, or an unprofessional approach.

Stories abound in wedding forums of the mood of the evening being killed off by poor performances from Wedding DJ’s who could not interact with the audience, or had brought equipment that delivered a flat sound.

If you really want to create lasting memories for your nearest and dearest for the right reasons, you need to understand a professional Wedding DJ with a solid reputation and extensive experience might come with a higher price tag,

However, the quality of their service can literally dictate the atmosphere of your wedding.

They will understand their role as your music guide and go-between for you and your guests when it comes to announcements and keeping the flow going.

They will also have invested in quality set up and playlist.

Investing in a reputable and experienced Wedding DJ can make a world of difference in the overall ambiance of the celebration.

6. Failing to Review the DJ’s Playlist

Music sets the mood for any event, and the wedding reception is no exception

Some couples make the mistake of assuming the DJ will automatically play their favourite songs without providing a playlist or discussing specific music preferences. 

If you book a reputable Wedding DJ, they will have a tried and tested wedding set list that they passionately curate.

At the core of a Wedding DJ’s raison d’etre is their love and knowledge of music.

So you should be in safe hands here.

No doubt there will be tracks that you would like played, like for your first announcement as a married couple or to introduce your first dance.

A skilled and understanding DJ will be able to work these into the evening, but to avoid disappointment, it’s essential to discuss the playlist in advance and ensure the DJ includes your favourite songs and genres.

7. Not Signing a Detailed Contract

A verbal agreement is not enough when it comes to hiring a Wedding DJ.

Indeed, any DJ worth their salt will provide their own Wedding DJ contract or Agreement.

This is a necessary piece of administration that provides peace of mind for both the bride and groom and the DJ.

Behind the celebrations and excitement of the big day, the agreement between you and your Wedding DJ is a business transaction and one of significant value.

As such you should insist on signing a detailed contract that outlines all the terms and conditions, including the start and end times, equipment setup, playlist details, and any additional services they’ll provide (e.g., lighting, emceeing) and cancellation policies.

A well-drafted contract protects both parties and ensures a smooth and stress-free experience.


Selecting the right Wedding DJ is a vital decision that can significantly impact the overall atmosphere of your wedding reception.

By avoiding these seven common mistakes, you can ensure you hire a professional, experienced, and talented DJ who will create an unforgettable experience for everyone in attendance.

Remember, investing time and effort in finding the perfect Wedding DJ will be well worth it when you and your guests hit the dance floor and create memories that will last a lifetime.


Thank you for letting me join you on your  journey to find the perfect Wedding DJ.

Your wedding day should be nothing less than extraordinary, and I’m here to make sure it’s a celebration you’ll cherish forever.

For more expert insights and guidance on creating the ultimate wedding experience, be sure to check out my free guide: Finding The Perfect Wedding DJ.

Happy planning!

Warm regards,
DJ Steve
Pure Rhythm Disco